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Getting Help
Do you think you have a problem with drugs or
alcohol? Are you
concerned about a family member who has a problem like this? Whatever
your
situation, it's easy to believe that you're alone with this. Maybe you
feel that
somehow you have to solve the problem all on your own. That is not the
case.
There are a lot of people who care about you, and who would like to
help you if
they can. You don't have to deal with drug addiction on your own!
Family & Friends
If you have abused drugs or alcohol, you might feel
that they
would not want to help you. You may feel like they are already fed up
with your
behavior and they don't care. You may think that they don't understand.
Well, perhaps
they are fed up with your behavior. Perhaps they have got good reason
to be.
But if so, it's your behavior that they don't like. They probably still
LOVE YOU
as a person.
If you talk to family members or friends honestly
about your
drug or alcohol problem, and are able to ask for their help in dealing
with it,
then you might be surprised at their reaction. Usually, if they think
that
you're being straight with them, your family or good friends will be
happy to
give you help and support. Remember to always respect them for helping
you and
remain appreciative for that help. If you are concerned about a family
member
who is abusing drugs or alcohol, family members and friends can give
you
emotional support that will help you to cope with the situation. They
can act
as a shoulder to cry on or as a physical support in confronting the
abuser
about his or her behavior Maybe they can help you to find a way
forward. They
can help you look after yourself, while at the same time encouraging
the
drug/alcohol abuser to seek help. As always, a problem shared is a
problem
halved.
A Doctor
If you have a drug or alcohol problem, a doctor may
be able to:
· Help
you understand
what's happening to you
· Explain
how you can
begin to overcome this addiction
· Refer
you to some
sort of community help
· Refer
you to a
day-care or residential treatment facility
But don't
“con” the doctor
just to get some pills that you think will make you feel better. That
won't
help you. That will only strengthen the power of your addiction. It
will make
things much worse. The first step in overcoming drug or alcohol
addiction is to
stop taking the drugs. Your doctor can be one form of support that you
can take
advantage of to help you to stop.
Residential Treatment
Residential treatment
offers intensive drug addiction help
over a period of weeks or months.
Residential treatment has some advantages over
out-patient
treatment, although it may not be suitable for everyone. For example,
those who
are responsible for caring for young children may be better suited to
attend an out-patient treatment program.
Residential
treatment can also be expensive, although some financial help is often
available for those in need.
Residential treatment offers a safe, drug and
alcohol-free
environment where individuals can confront their own drug addiction and
associated issues. This is done with the help of qualified staff.
Therapy
usually consists of a mixture of group counseling, individual
counseling, and
an introduction to the principles of a drug recovery program.
We can't give details here of all Residential
Treatment Centers
around the world.
Drug
Counseling
Individual drug
counseling can be a great benefit to those who are seeking help in
tackling
their own drug or alcohol addiction. Such counseling can also help
those people
who are affected by the alcohol or drug addiction of another member of
the
family.
Drug counseling may be more appropriate or practical
than
either out-patient treatment or residential treatment for some people.
For
example, someone who has a full time job may be unable to attend a
residential
treatment center. Similarly, someone who has children may only be able
to
secure a child sitter for an hour or two in the daytime. In situations
like
this, using a local drug counselor may be the best solution. It allows
appointments
to be made that suit the circumstances of the individual seeking help.
You will
be able to find details of drug counselors in your local area by
looking in the
telephone book or the Yellow Pages.
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